Showing posts with label Self Improvement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self Improvement. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

To While or Whilst : That is the Question

Ha ha so cliche.. 

I often like to use whilst and suddenly i'm wondering what the different between the 2. I've read thousand of English novels ( not exaggerating) in my lifetime until now la, and i can write in English better than i speak as well. So often than not i stumble upon this word and i've been known to use words that not really usual in my league of peer. Since they all not as consume on reading as me. 

Both while and whilst have been in the language for a very long time. While was in use in Old English; whilst is a Middle English development of while. As conjunctions they are interchangeable in meaning, but whilst has not survived in standard American English.

To the American ear whilst sounds quaint. Some British and Canadian speakers think it sounds literary or old-fashioned, but many British speakers prefer it to while


As you all knew in Malaysia some of us use standard American - English whilst ( see, i use it again) others following British - English. So, that's why when you are using WORDS sometimes they change your typing according to your language setting. From colour become color. 

Anything with -our is British-English which Malaysian should be using since we've once been conquer by them.So instead of color we should use colour. Even though it's been marked red right now. Ha ha..I guess Englishmen likes it long and better sound. I just loves those Britt with their accents..

Monday, July 9, 2012

My Best Friend Wedding

To my best buddy Pn Shida congrats on your wedding.. you look so lovely and happy and i'm happy for you too my dear..


We have known each other like forever and we've more like sisters than friends.. i love that we can share things, feelings and we never felt insulted to one another no matter what.. we don't have bad feelings upon each other no matter what happen and that's so precious to me..

To her i wish happy in life and i love you babe..


Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Tekanan dan Stress

Tekanan !! 

Semua orang merasai tekanan di dalam hidup..kecil atau besar bergantung kepada pendapat kita sendiri. Bagaimana kita boleh melawannya serta come out as a winner in the battle between urself dan the world adalah satu perkara yang membezakn setiap insan di muka bumi ini. Sesetengah orang choose the coward way out seperti melarikan diri, bunuh diri or worst blame other people. 

But the fact is you got to accept wujudnya tekanan di mana-mana pun arah yang kita tuju. The best way out adalah harungi tekanan ini bersama yang tersayang ( family, friends, boyfriend, husband, wife..ect) dan kuatkan diri anda supaya tidak jatuh dengan tekanan yang datang.

Come out as a winner from yourself.. orang yang berjaya adalah orang yang mampu melawan dirinya sendiri dan orang yang mampu menjadikan dirinya lebih baik dari semalam..do not try to be better than others cause your destiny tidak sama dengan orang lain..

Masa tak menunggu kita so does happiness and health..jangan lepaskan semua ini kerana tekanan atau ketakutan kerana mungkin apa yang kita lepaskan itu merupakan penyelamat kita.. hopefully i'll be wiser myself..

" Demi masa, sesungguhnya manusia di dalam kerugian..kecuali mereka yang berpesan-pesan dengan kebaikan dan berpesan-pesan dengan kebenaran"

Nota Kaki : Sebenarnya nak tulis fully in Malay but cannot, cannot, cannot oh..bercampur juga dengan English and eventually now it became rojak..aigoo...mood : sangat tak biasa tulis banyak sangat fully Malay..

Friday, April 20, 2012

PTPTN : Should we pay vs Free and Easy Money

I knew there should be by dozens blogs which giving their own opinion on this matters. Some of if maybe rather harsh and some of it totally backing up the idea of  Not Paying PTPTN. I have vague understanding on this matters cause i hated news nowadays. I just open up STAR to read on the cartoons and TV program.

But it's hard to miss the drama that have been laid out on front page so i take a sneak peek on it. I am one of students who got debt with PTPTN and i'm ashamed to say that i've been not paying them cause i'm pretty not cool with my balance wasn't going down after paying some months during first years i got a job. Now i'm waiting to pay using my EPF /KWSP but i have no time to run up and down EPF and PTPTN..but i'm paying cause i'm the one who has been using the money..so it's a responsibility that i have to take on my own..

I don't agree that we should not paid back PTPTN cause we already got too much leniency in this matter. How many FREE things we want from government. Yup maybe you'll said it's taxpayer money...bla bla bla..and your dad pay tax..bla bla bla..but i don't think most of the students who been receiving PTPTN has dad who paid tax.. that's why we got the loan right ? we don't have dad who can afford to pay tax and paid off our college fees..just saying

If you want to fight, why not fight for grade A students who got pointer more than 3.5/ 4 ( i'm one of them..hu hu) don't need to pay the loan. Then it's fair for me. Cause these students study hard and really need to be given reprieve for them to further studies. Only then we can have more professional students in Malaysia who owed his/her country for their success.. and less of them will choose to stay overseas..
FREE things will only make our nation grew weak.. there will be less survival instinct.. only country with a lot of competitor and so little chance end up being a great country..


Monday, March 26, 2012

Is it Worth it to be ANGRY ?


2 weeks back we went for a course and the speaker speak on anger.. i guess it was stuck with me and i kept on remembering what she said..

She said there's no use of us getting angry at someone cause most of the times that person don't even know you are angry at him/her - meaning : nowadays people make it a habit to post on Facebook or tweet tweet when they feel really angry with someone..i've seen a lot of my friends also like that ( including me /(^.^)\ ) ha ha when you think about it, it's correct also..

It's you who felt the bitterness and suffer when you're angry whereas that person don't feel a thing..they don't even know you're mad at them..wasted..

So be classy about it.. and be mature.. i don't think i want to keep in my heart for long mad at someone who doesn't even know / care i'm mad at him.. and Facebook -ing / tweet -tering bout it so not cool.. i rather be cool than childish ( that's for underage only)..he he

I rather agree that Facebook has been platform for showing off and it's worrying when you started to post silly pictures of yourself..or pictures with lovers in eye bugging manner.. cause most of parents now also have Facebook and monitoring their children..so think about how they feel when you posted all those pictures of you kissing , smooching and grabbing..for all to see..cousins, uncles, family members..that's just demeaning..

So girls especially..think about the future rather than present day..you might break up or he can cheat you whilst you posted those happy moments with him and think about how humiliating when he drop the bomb cause you already told the world your un-dying love to a prick ..

Sighhh..so think of the future more when engage in social networking..

Friday, March 2, 2012

Lelaki Curang Miliki IQ Rendah


Saw this just now on FB..i guess it's correct cause usually a man who cheated on his wife got a really good wife. A wife that maybe a bit messy cause she too busy caring for her husband than herself, a wife that prepared everything for his husband and left with a little time for herself..instead the husband repay the wife with taking another lover which prettier, younger and knew nothing about taking care of him. A girl who never knew a meaning of sacrifices, hard work and humbleness.

So i 100% agreed that faithless men are demented cause they let go something precious and opted for something false..and pretty face doesn't give you happiness..duhh

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

MAS Flashmob Malaysian Style





It's just great..anything Malaysian did always included possibly all the majority races in Malaysia..
Who says we're not 1 Malaysia..just see all around you..it's not about politics..it's about mutual respect and living together in harmony..don't poison it cause anyway your heritage is here also..

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Love is Unrational..


"Jangan sesekali mengucapkan selamat tinggal jika kamu masih mahu mencuba.
Jangan sesekali menyerah jika kamu masih merasa sanggup.
Jangan sesekali mengatakan kamu tidak mencintainya lagi jika kamu masih tidak dapat melupakannya"
Translation : 
Don't say goodbye if you still want to try. Don't give up if you still up to it. Don't you ever say that you don't love him if you still can't forget him.

Saw these words on Facebook just now..how true it is isn't it..some of us just letting go but then suddenly felt regrets of doing so..not fighting.. 

For me i just let the love come to me cause i felt that i had enough fighting, loving and caring for things i love and for someone i adore. Love always have been constructive and destructive. We somehow will blame it on other person , i know at one point i do but then i choose to let it go. Cause at some point you will care for that person that you had love and cherished memory you've made together..

And who are you to say that you never hurt his feeling and cause him pain until he needed to get away from you.. in this world there's no such thing as right or wrong.. cause every mind think differently..what's wrong for us doesn't mean wrong for other person.. there's just conscience.. knowing our self whether we've made the right decision or not.. 

Or whether we had done mistakes that cannot be forgiven by someone who trusted us dearly.. love, lies, pain, hurt and happiness.. they will always be in our lives.. it's the matter of how we perceived it and dealt with it..

Remember wrong or right we've made the choices..

Friday, December 30, 2011

Shackled to The Toilet



Nowadays Facebook is one of medium that give us a glance at the important news in our country. For someone like me who hated to read papers ( coz a lot of rubbish in it) other than to see cartoons and sales then to see interesting headlines on specific news will do.

There's a lot of pressure coming in for families and person  with the economic downturn and with higher prices of goods. Recently i felt the heat from it when i went to buy wet stuff to cook for Dongzhi Festive. Just imagine if myself who got better income than average people with no apparent burden such as mortgage and debts end up feeling rather hard about the prices. How would middle income family who got a lot on their plates feels then ?

I know there will be a lot of sides who will take this chance to go forward and blame this guy for shackling his kids. But what if you got no other choice in securing your child's life. What if it's true that these 2 kids are really naughty and his father afraid they would hurt them self while  he's away for a job that suppose to feed them.

I'm not saying i agreed with his method though, but sometimes we can't judge right..we do not live in his life so we don't know how he's suffering.. last time our parents hit us as punishment when we do wrongful stuff and we remember it as lesson learn..but nowadays when parent punish their children for their sake, the children will tell that they're being abused.. that's why we can see younger generation more weaker, morally lacking and easily dismissing their parents..

Just remember how many teenagers running away from their house and make it to the paper.. the 2 Indians boys..the Chinese girls..the Malays also..and when they came back instead of lashing out and punish them, the parents hugging them and crying...

I've been hit by belt and hanger when i'm small to teach me of respect and my mistake ( they never hug me after that, just left me to think of my mistake)..and strokes of Rotan from my teacher for not completing assignment or being naughty.. i don't resent them ( yeah, afraid sometimes) and i am thankful cause they taught me if i do bad thing, i should be ready for the consequences as well ..

So, don't judge this father if you only read the news and do not know about him at all..give equal chances to people even when they make mistakes..there's a lot of undue influence making this stuff happen isn't it..you can blame government for the increasing price of daily items making this father have to work hard, you can blame his employer for giving him a small salary making him unable to afford baby sitter and you can blame his wife for leaving him with the kids..

You can blame everybody for one mistake..but in the end how you going to solve it what's matter..

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Uitm Melaka Protest Non-Bumiputra Intake

picture taken from facebook

I'm not saying i'm into politics or taking part in any protest by posting my opinion on this. It's just i'm a by product of Uitm itself even though my Campus is much more strict and i would like to say better than Melaka Campus..ha ha don't get cooked up k guys..

First of all i'm opposing this protest because for me a lot of stuff you should put in fate's hand. When you're protesting an issue like this you open up a channel for other races to scorn Bumiputera/ Malays at large. And i can guaranteed that not all Malays share the notion of this protest. I mean let's face it..the harder we were push to the wall, the better we will survive and evolve. But if we kept on being feed, we'll become lazy and never move on to work it better. 

Let's just seen other nations..example America.. their tax is high, expenses also high and their pay also high..see how many invention they made, how many scholars and intelligent people came from America..because they got so intense competition..if you fail to be the best than you'll be the last..no one waits for you and no one will change the educations schemes so you can pass and the ratings of pass students will be higher..non..no such things..they set the parameters high and expect you to work on it..
Then Japan..they work so schematic and hard..you'll see how that islands, volcanic, soft peoples can invent a lot of stuff and set their status high up with other big nations. Why can they do that and not us? What we don't have that they do?

The answer is they have to compete to be the best..If there's competition than people will trying harder to overcome the other party in a healthy ways. Same as if Uitm opening their doors to other. Then competition will be created thus making sure that only the best, smart, hardworking and quality people will be enroll. 

This will ensure higher standard of education, peoples and country as a whole..wouldn't it be better..

Last time peoples will be proud to be chosen into a University but nowadays they rather choose Colleges because of the higher standard since they normally follows International standard. Work together as one nation and we'll strive higher but if one race continues to resent each other then how we going to stay in one boat and still afloat.. think about it.. 

Malaysians are Malaysians no matter what colours, races or religions..

Color Test - Results


Color Quiz is a free five minute personality test based on decades of research by color psychologists around the world. There are no complicated questions to answer, you simply choose colors with a click of the mouse! Your test results are completely confidential and we do not keep the results.

This test is based on the work of Dr. Max Lûscher and is used worldwide, most notably in Europe, by psychologists, doctors, government agencies, and universities to screen their candidates. Since the 1950's the test has been given to hundreds of thousands of people.

My Result

Your Existing Situation

"Craves change and new things, always looking for new adventures and activities. Becomes restless and frustrated when she has to wait to long for things to develop. her impatience leads to irritability and a desire to move on to the next project."

Your Stress Sources

"Demands to be noticed by others as an important individual, needs attention and recognition. her current situation is leaving her dissatisfied. she feels she needs to make friends with those who hold the same high standards she does. Wants to stand out as someone at the top of her class and be admired by others. she needs to feel in control which makes it difficult to give of herself to another person. she feels isolated and alone but refuses to appear weak and continues to be emotionally distant from others in order to keep her attitude of superiority. "

Your Restrained Characteristics

Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.

Giving more than she is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels she is being forced into compromising and even her close relationships leave her feeling emotional distant.

Giving more than she is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels she is being forced into compromising and even her close relationships leave her feeling emotional distant.


His arrogance causes her to take offense quickly. Only those closest to her know deep down she is sensitive and sentimental.


Feels as if too many walls and obstacles are standing in her way and that she is being forced to make compromises. she needs to put her own needs on hold for the time being.

Your Desired Objective

"Highly optimistic and outgoing personality. Loves to learn new and exciting things, and craves new interests. Looking for a well-rounded life full of success and new experiences. Does not allow herself to be overcome with negative thoughts or self-doubt. Takes life head on, with enthusiasm. "

Your Actual Problem

Is afraid she will be held back from obtaining the things she wants leading her to act out with a hectic intensity.

Your Actual Problem #2

"Enjoys making new plans and goals, but needs to be respected and admired for the things she accomplishes."

Taken at http://www.colorquiz.com

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Quote..


'nough said isn't it..just walk on your own path..

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Respect YourSelf


"Respect isn't about right or wrong, good or bad, it's about understanding a person as to why they do certain things"


 always be exceptional..think out of the box

My title for today comes from this quote i stumbled upon in Facebook. I am a strong believer in respect and politeness. And i am a strong hater for liars, selfish and stupid person. Well, i guess anyone will..

But then we cannot judge a person quickly cause there are some thing we can't control in our life. And we can't control other person. What right for us maybe wrong for them, vice versa..

So respect people out of respecting yourself.. cause you judge, i judge, he will also judge.. so, what's left is don't barged in into someone else life and destroyed it..

Play it cool, nice and with utmost respect..coz, you know..sometimes there's no right or wrong, there's just past,present and future..

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Mineral Makeup..is it better than traditional Makeup?



Well i am quite curious on this as well..there's a lot of advert saying how good it is to be using Mineral Foundation rather than normal type of product. I have also tried using Loreal Mineral Foundation last time with that Kabuki brush. I agree with this statement though.. 

“No one product, including mineral foundation, is going to correct problems like large pores and uneven pigmentation,” Herta says. “To address those concerns you need primer, concealer, and the right skin care regimen.”

Try to read this edited version of article..

What makes mineral makeup different from traditional makeup isn’t the ingredients it contains, but what’s left out. That list, for many leading brands, includes preservatives, parabens, mineral oil, chemical dyes, and fragrance. These are all possible causes of irritation, one reason many dermatologists recommend mineral makeup.  

Cosmetic chemists don’t quite see a revolution. “I think mineral makeup is marketing hype,” says Ni’Kita Wilson, a cosmetic chemist at Englewood Lab in New Jersey. Perry Romanowsksi, author of Can You Get Hooked on Lip Balm? Top Cosmetic Scientists Answer Your Questions About the Lotions, Potions and Other Beauty Products You Use Every Day, agrees. “All makeup is mineral makeup,” he says. “You’ll find the same mineral ingredients -- titanium dioxide, zinc oxide, mica and iron oxides -- in conventional products.”

Contrary to what advertisements may suggest, those ingredients aren’t simply mined, pulverized, and poured into compacts. “I’d like someone to show me a zinc oxide mine,” Wilson says. “It doesn’t exist. Zinc oxide is synthesized in the lab.”


“I’m not a big fan,” says Tasha Reiko Brown, a regular on the Style Network’s How Do I Look, who has won raves for the makeup she does on singer Florence Welch of the group Florence and the Machine. “I find it collects in fine lines and pores and accentuates dry flaky areas, while it catches in slick spots. And if you’re a woman of color, it can be very difficult to find a shade that’s a good match for your skin.”

Mineral makeup won’t take the place of your moisturizer, acne cream, or anti-aging serum potions, but it does offer some skin care benefits.

As for so-called liquid mineral foundations, Wilson says it’s impossible to create a liquid product with a pared-down ingredients list. Because microbes thrive in water, a liquid formulation must include some kind of preservative, she says. Without it, contaminated products can lead to skin infections. 

I guess that's the important part of the article. Anyway i agree that anything which needed to be process and put with preservative sure as hell not certified as nature's fresh product. I find that it doesn't have  much differ if it's Mineral or not. As long as you are not using it too much and too regular your face will be just fine. Of course there's the need for moisturizer and cleaning regime.

But as far as i'm concern, you don't need make up to hide yourself.. you should see make up as indulgence of life..which will be exciting if you sometimes indulge in it..while enjoying most time of your life doing something else rather than wasting it in front of the mirror..

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Damn,The Drama Getting Hot!

 tired of the drama in real life?? let's sleep on it..

The weather's hot and so does the drama.. I love drama.. i love how they can add up special effect to the story to spice it up. I love the way the episode going on to hundred and new character keep coming out.. 

Ha ha i even love the meddlesome supporting actors/actress who diligently played their parts..sometimes without knowing what they are fighting for.. they just make sure they became the full support of the main actress/heroine unbeknownst  of the entire ploy/story. Sometimes i felt like really pity on them.

And some more if the heroine ( we thought she was) played it nicely like she's the little angel who got hurt. I really salute that actress. Ha ha like those Korean Drama.hmm yeah Brilliant Legacy..wow..her step sister was really devil in disguise. Make people who act as watchers wanted to vomit at her act.. 

In this world there's a lot of Drama. But when it's in real life a lot come at stake. Sometimes watchers may just act as one even when they knew the whole story a lot better than the supporting actress whom relying on one source of the story only. In life i often regret being a watcher.. but sometimes i know it's for the best. Worst thing could happen to a liar even without my interruption. God does it, so does Karma...
You know sometimes we're in a situation where people can curse you and make your life hell..i don't mean those witch craft thing, which by the way don't ever tried it.. i mean when people said it, when they hate you so much.. then the blessing of life will left you..especially when the person who curse you is someone you've wronged..god won't answer the prayer of the wrong doer kan.. 

In a situation, there's a doubt in what could have been done to prevent it from happening and you didn't take the precaution or just wanted it to happen, no one can be blame for your own carelessness..or the fact that you intent it to happen secretly... but when the plan fail to put you in the very spot you wanted, you started to blame everyone especially someone who already look guilty in the eyes of others. Then, he's the easy victim, isn't it. I guess that's what happen when our mind still developing the sense of pros and cons.. I guess i learn how one act can lead to dire consequences through my experience and age. 

But sometimes, it's tiring to teach or advise someone else to do the same..to think the consequences of what they are doing in the long run.. not only to them self but to other people around them..especially to the one they hurt..or they say they love..sometimes you said you hate that person, but in time you'll become the very person you hate.. you'll act like that and you won't realize it.. cause hate make people blind..

Remember..actions define words..does your action define your love..ask yourself that!!

Mood : It's raining ..listening to Justin Lo Tough Life..

Sunday, November 27, 2011

For SomeoneI I Know..


I'll say to rejoice..but it's about how your look into your life..you can be grateful cause what you still got still more than what unfortunate others have..but you can choose to wallow in self pity as well.. anyway in any case me myself won't ever go down to whatever and be a charity case to anybody or expect pity from people i despise and people who judge me when they don't know the hell of i am.. be it arrogant or ignorance.. i am just proud of who i have made myself to be after all this time..

Veni, Vidi, Vici ( if you don't know what this mean you should go to school back)..

You are Seriously Demented if..

 You Are Seriously Demented If..

1) Thinking marrying to rich husband/wife will make you look cool..
Sure you look clever but also low and pride-less in the eyes of others( mostly for men) cause you're clinging to someone for money..and easy way of life. Friends, relatives ( yours and hers) will talk behind your back and give you "the eyes" especially during festive seasons where you due to visit them or them to visit you.

2) Destroying your life for former love ?? Seriously ?? That's just a ++ for stupidity..
Just look how many suicide cases nowadays and how many darlings whom subjected their life to drugs and alcohol because of love. They ruined their life because someone has ruined their life earlier.. does that sound demented to you. And plus, life is short, you'll be torture enough when you went to hell after you die. Why want to cut short a little trip you have on earth that will end anytime anyway. You'll realize after too late that your life is more at heaven when you live rather than die. Dead person can't shopping can they ;)

3) Family come after ect ect..duh.unless you already ( in every sense also) like a family with yours truly..
Comments. It's just unless yours truly is really yours then there's no point making it a point of treating him obsessively..there's no point to turn your back on your family for someone who wasn't even sure he wanted to be with you.. never beg yours truly to come back to you or acting foolish when he's the one who wronged you.. not only you're demented if you beg him to come back to you but you also seriously need help..i forgive but i never look back when he don't care..

4) You're ready to take on life when you still haven't earn your penny..
Got this! Life is not easy unless you mommy daddy are super rich. If you're from average family then forget about mending your life when you got theirs to mend. If you're responsible. Nowadays it's hard to see children who gave their family part of their hard earn money. For some of you that idea seems foreign, aye.. but Malays this is part of our culture. Give back your parent reprieve from having to bust their way to make a life out of you. So we give them a part from our salary so they don't have to work extremely hard like they done last time when we're small. So that they can relax a bit with their friends now that we're older and earning. I gave my parents certain sum every months without fail and i make sure my mom got everything she ever wanted within means. She got a nice " Hari Raya" and she got a nice fulfilling life. My mom, dad and family are the greatest. But you're seriously demented if you think, you, with no work and good family wanted to take on life like it was easy. You'll be a burden for people around you for sure, and the worse thing is you know it, you know they talk behind your back, you know they don't want you but you selfishly ignore it because you just want what you want.

will continue..

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

My Quote!



Walk Down The Earth with Your Head Down Low

This quote was so strong that it build a sense of peacefulness and down to earth feeling.  It urged us speak politely if we wanted people look at our lips with awe..not because of cosmetic but because of what they have been using for..to utter words of kindness and politeness.. people won't remember us for what brand of lipstick we use isn't it!!

For lovely eyes..don't see what's bad in a person or what's wrong with him/her..see what kindness he has shown you..and admit you also not perfect as he is..

No need to diet, just give away your food or stuff for the needy one..the terms here not about the actual size you are now in but how other person look at you..you don't want to be " That stingy fat person" in the eyes of others..you want to be "That nice chubby angel" in their eyes..not that you should hope for compliment anyway..that's just wrong..

For beautiful hair ..some people hates kids..they are not patient with them and often felt it is better not to have child of their own..but having kids around means more responsibility and more of everything.. it will make you more matured and at the same time will make you more soft and nice..a child who like to touch your hair also means you are easily approach and  if a child like you so thus will other people.. but sometimes reality is the opposite.. don't be fool by appearance nowadays.. anyway god have powers to take away that pretender in a time least expected..

Knowing that you never alone will make you felt more confident about yourself..family, friends - real deal and lover who will support you in any conditions.. with the knowledge of having them you already a winner.. but just make sure they are real deal.. not sincere and acting as name only doesn't really count here..

A person.. need more pushing, caring, helping and love more than anything. they need to be forgive..their story need to be heard and they need to be given advise.. not a person should be abandoned and toss away especially from their family.. and a person who destroyed one's happiness will in exchange suffer for it afterwards.. Karma is shitty cause it just know how to get you when least expected and when you already in terrible condition yourself..

Is there a crime so big that you got toss away from your family because an outsider whispers words of poison. Because your family trust those poison more than they trust you?? because they don't want to walk along beside you and hold your hand through it.. because they feel losing you is much better than helping you?? or because they think an outsider can replace their long time family member.. the truth will eventually come out ..but in the meantime everyone should be given a chance to be heard and to redeem them self.. no one should be thrown out , not from your own family..

If you need a helping hand you'll find it in your self. You got to stand on your own.. cause in the end all you have is your self also..but when you got older and more stronger..you can lend others a hand too..don't go helping others when you barely made it yourself..cause you'll eventually burnt yourself and won't be effective in helping either..

The Conclusion : Don't wronged other person cause they might just think to get even..and live life.. be thankful for what you got and appreciate person next to you..


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