Wordless Wednesday!

Is it Worth it to be ANGRY ?

2 weeks back we went for a course and the speaker speak on anger.. i guess it was stuck with me and i kept on remembering what she said..

She said there's no use of us getting angry at someone cause most of the times that person don't even know you are angry at him/her - meaning : nowadays people make it a habit to post on Facebook or tweet tweet when they feel really angry with someone..i've seen a lot of my friends also like that ( including me /(^.^)\ ) ha ha when you think about it, it's correct also..

It's you who felt the bitterness and suffer when you're angry whereas that person don't feel a thing..they don't even know you're mad at them..wasted..

So be classy about it.. and be mature.. i don't think i want to keep in my heart for long mad at someone who doesn't even know / care i'm mad at him.. and Facebook -ing / tweet -tering bout it so not cool.. i rather be cool than childish ( that's for underage only)..he he

I rather agree that Facebook has been platform for showing off and it's worrying when you started to post silly pictures of yourself..or pictures with lovers in eye bugging manner.. cause most of parents now also have Facebook and monitoring their children..so think about how they feel when you posted all those pictures of you kissing , smooching and grabbing..for all to see..cousins, uncles, family members..that's just demeaning..

So girls especially..think about the future rather than present day..you might break up or he can cheat you whilst you posted those happy moments with him and think about how humiliating when he drop the bomb cause you already told the world your un-dying love to a prick ..

Sighhh..so think of the future more when engage in social networking..

Love is Unrational..

"Jangan sesekali mengucapkan selamat tinggal jika kamu masih mahu mencuba.
Jangan sesekali menyerah jika kamu masih merasa sanggup.
Jangan sesekali mengatakan kamu tidak mencintainya lagi jika kamu masih tidak dapat melupakannya"

Translation : 

Don't say goodbye if you still want to try. Don't give up if you still up to it. Don't you ever say that you don't love him if you still can't forget him.

Saw these words on Facebook just now..how true it is isn't it..some of us just letting go but then suddenly felt regrets of doing so..not fighting.. 

For me i just let the love come to me cause i felt that i had enough fighting, loving and caring for things i love and for someone i adore. Love always have been constructive and destructive. We somehow will blame it on other person , i know at one point i do but then i choose to let it go. Cause at some point you will care for that person that you had love and cherished memory you've made together..

And who are you to say that you never hurt his feeling and cause him pain until he needed to get away from you.. in this world there's no such thing as right or wrong.. cause every mind think differently..what's wrong for us doesn't mean wrong for other person.. there's just conscience.. knowing our self whether we've made the right decision or not.. 

Or whether we had done mistakes that cannot be forgiven by someone who trusted us dearly.. love, lies, pain, hurt and happiness.. they will always be in our lives.. it's the matter of how we perceived it and dealt with it..

Remember wrong or right we've made the choices..

Quote..

'nough said isn't it..just walk on your own path..

Respect YourSelf

"Respect isn't about right or wrong, good or bad, it's about understanding a person as to why they do certain things"

 always be exceptional..think out of the box

My title for today comes from this quote i stumbled upon in Facebook. I am a strong believer in respect and politeness. And i am a strong hater for liars, selfish and stupid person. Well, i guess anyone will..

But then we cannot judge a person quickly cause there are some thing we can't control in our life. And we can't control other person. What right for us maybe wrong for them, vice versa..

So respect people out of respecting yourself.. cause you judge, i judge, he will also judge.. so, what's left is don't barged in into someone else life and destroyed it..

Play it cool, nice and with utmost respect..coz, you know..sometimes there's no right or wrong, there's just past,present and future..

For SomeoneI I Know..

I'll say to rejoice..but it's about how your look into your life..you can be grateful cause what you still got still more than what unfortunate others have..but you can choose to wallow in self pity as well.. anyway in any case me myself won't ever go down to whatever and be a charity case to anybody or expect pity from people i despise and people who judge me when they don't know the hell of i am.. be it arrogant or ignorance.. i am just proud of who i have made myself to be after all this time..

Veni, Vidi, Vici ( if you don't know what this mean you should go to school back)..

What I Am Also

My Pride

My Quote!

Walk Down The Earth with Your Head Down Low

This quote was so strong that it build a sense of peacefulness and down to earth feeling.  It urged us speak politely if we wanted people look at our lips with awe..not because of cosmetic but because of what they have been using for..to utter words of kindness and politeness.. people won't remember us for what brand of lipstick we use isn't it!!

For lovely eyes..don't see what's bad in a person or what's wrong with him/her..see what kindness he has shown you..and admit you also not perfect as he is..

No need to diet, just give away your food or stuff for the needy one..the terms here not about the actual size you are now in but how other person look at you..you don't want to be " That stingy fat person" in the eyes of others..you want to be "That nice chubby angel" in their eyes..not that you should hope for compliment anyway..that's just wrong..

For beautiful hair ..some people hates kids..they are not patient with them and often felt it is better not to have child of their own..but having kids around means more responsibility and more of everything.. it will make you more matured and at the same time will make you more soft and nice..a child who like to touch your hair also means you are easily approach and  if a child like you so thus will other people.. but sometimes reality is the opposite.. don't be fool by appearance nowadays.. anyway god have powers to take away that pretender in a time least expected..

Knowing that you never alone will make you felt more confident about yourself..family, friends - real deal and lover who will support you in any conditions.. with the knowledge of having them you already a winner.. but just make sure they are real deal.. not sincere and acting as name only doesn't really count here..

A person.. need more pushing, caring, helping and love more than anything. they need to be forgive..their story need to be heard and they need to be given advise.. not a person should be abandoned and toss away especially from their family.. and a person who destroyed one's happiness will in exchange suffer for it afterwards.. Karma is shitty cause it just know how to get you when least expected and when you already in terrible condition yourself..

Is there a crime so big that you got toss away from your family because an outsider whispers words of poison. Because your family trust those poison more than they trust you?? because they don't want to walk along beside you and hold your hand through it.. because they feel losing you is much better than helping you?? or because they think an outsider can replace their long time family member.. the truth will eventually come out ..but in the meantime everyone should be given a chance to be heard and to redeem them self.. no one should be thrown out , not from your own family..

If you need a helping hand you'll find it in your self. You got to stand on your own.. cause in the end all you have is your self also..but when you got older and more stronger..you can lend others a hand too..don't go helping others when you barely made it yourself..cause you'll eventually burnt yourself and won't be effective in helping either..

The Conclusion : Don't wronged other person cause they might just think to get even..and live life.. be thankful for what you got and appreciate person next to you..

Quotes by Audrey Hepburn

It's a nice quote. Happy girl is pretty girl, yeah i believe in that also. And i believe in a lots of stuff.

I believe that we shouldn't take for granted others kindness.

I believe that we shouldn't manipulate anyone for our own benefit

I believe we should honor and protect the one we said we loves

I believe friends who stick by you no matter what you did

I believe in Karma, what goes around comes back around

and I believe in hope, cause therein lay our humanity..

I don't believe in using friends for my own benefit especially when she just knew half of the truth of that stories. And i don't believe in damaging myself so that others suffer. 

Cause i believe in making myself happier when all odds are against me. Because in the end i have to stand by myself and at the end of the day i have to confront my conscience on what i have done today.

And i think my heart is all that's matter in the end..and i refuse to bring rotten stuff into this short life of mine..

cause hatred is poison to morality and  revenge is a doom your create for yourself..

cause in the end what matter doesn't matters cause it don't matters to someone that matter..

Friends - My Bff's

“Count your age by friends, not years. 

  Count your life by smiles, not tears.”
  John Lennon

Love this quotes. I really love quotes cause it's one of the thing that can light up our path. Yeah, we have consciousness about almost all the meaning of the quotes but somehow we just need others to say it and we to see it only we somehow can nail it to our mind and heart.

 They just so into posing.since i'm relatively their photographer my pose seems limited..ha ha

They are just beautiful inside out..

Seems like i'm getting more bff's and i am glad to know them and for them to know me. They have been with me through thick and thin and never leave me alone no matter what. Ha ha..such a busybody bunch but i love them so much as they love me.. Still missing my lovely friend Puteri Azimah here since i forgot to take her picture when we met that day..anyhow you here in my heart my dear..

 Giving me surprised on my birthday ;)

 

My lovely Samson - Korean Drama pose..he he

 Going Karok together..and sing silly songs and laugh..

 Shopping together..

Taking pictures of them again..ha ha..giler photo betul all my friends ni..

Anyway i am glad to count my age by my friends..they are the best and i won't exchange them for hundreds of friends. I rather have this bunch cause what they are..true to my heart..love u babes and guys..

Mood : 2011 Hits Music

Cool..

Cool huh..ha ha.. seen this on FB and well there's a lot of creative peeps out there as well as who had been slammed against the wall or being treated like s**t ,like we care what you bullies think coz here's  news for you and your cohorts..I don't wake up every day to impress you..

Mood : Replaying Adele Someone Like You ;)

Quote on Karma

I so do love this..i like quotes..they are the words said by a person who can think of a way to let their feelings out. I had that feeling but i just don't know how to put it into words..but here it is..the ultimate..

Life..

I am Trying to Practise this..

So whenever i felt angry i try to smile back - which by the way is really hard to do..and right now i am smiling really wide..short Life doesn't exclude people from being harsh, from being awful to other people and from being unreasonable about something. 

Sometimes it's just sucks to have one whole lot of peoples who tend to make other people misery and uncomfortable. When they can just let people be happy but refuse to do it in the name of their selfishness and for their pride. When they can actually share the happiness and laugh more with increasing number of person. But they choose what they believe instead of taking risk on making other person happy.

I guess everyone in this world, one way or another is selfish. I am too, i guess. Somehow to be happy i am willing to be selfish but i am a far cry from cruel. I know there's a limit and i know world doesn't belong to me. I have sacrifice a lot on my part.. i have protect.. i have withdraw and i have been the softest of flowers but somehow people still mean, still doesn't realize and still too shallow to see the truth..and to give their blessing.. 

But i will hold to this ..

coz in the end ..

Changes..

Life bring many changes..in so many ways.. it can be now, later or maybe couple of years but changes occur everyday..

Sometimes those changes happen to your heart, feelings rather than environment around you. You may lose somebody somewhere along the road and all you can do is keep walking or hitch another ride. I won't feel sad for long if anything happen cause i know life go on even without you and i want to be there when it goes. I don't want to be some ghost who suddenly appear and don't know how many times he has lose just because he felt disappointed in someone. 

Sure in life you have to consider other people around you since you are not alone in this world but don't lose yourself in the process. I have a strong sense of responsibility but i take myself important too above others. There's nothing selfish in wanting something that you're capable to achieve without hurting others.

My dream sure seem kinda far to grab but i would definitely reach there no matter what time i have to take to get there. And along the way i will shower everyone with my love and compassion. Cause i want to be remember as someone who dear to heart always..

I am creating the ME in this world and i won't fall if i fail in my first creation. Instead i will go on further and add more to get the perfect ME.

Poems or My Heart's Voice

Last time during my Uni years i always wrote poems or specifically my heart's voice. That time i even wrote song for my bester buddy. But time come and go and sadly so did people. But then she reminded me who am i during that time and how free am i in expressing my feelings. Sometimes i just hope life is just as easy when you are still young and bare no responsibility. But then with responsibility we gets wiser and happier intact cause we are part of something and we are worth something also. So, to my friend thanks for the memory and reminder of who am i and who i can be.. which is better in time i hope.. xoxo gurl..

You're my sunshine after the rain 

The purest things in my feeling and dream

When i lose you i feel the pain 

And my heart never feels the same

You guide me through mischief and games

Through happiness and through everything

Never once we lose our footing 

We challenge the world with our own feeling 

But years gone by we are miles apart

And still you’re safe in my heart

A special place I save for you

Never will fade never will lost

Cause heart knows best

And I like to keep you there safe

Forever and always..

Hmm it might be a wee bit off but i am happy with my feelings.. May you forever be happy my friend no matter where you are and what you do =)